If you ask ten people to describe what stress feels like, you’ll probably hear ten very different answers. How a person experiences any mental health concern or condition is shaped by their individuality, and that is why psychology must always be tailored to the person seeking support. Without that, it fails to connect in a meaningful way, whether the client is a teen working through the challenges of growing up or an adult facing pressures later in life.
At NextGen Psychology, we specialise in mental health support and therapies for youth, adults over 25 and defence personnel, whether serving or retired. Our approach is client-centric, and we offer a safe and non-judgmental space where every individual is heard and understood.
The teenage years are a time of rapid change, involving not only physical growth but also school demands, shifting friendships and questions of identity that can arise all at once. These tensions can feel overwhelming and isolating, and it is not unusual to need professional guidance during this stage. This is particularly important for teens who are neurodivergent or who experience anxiety, depression, bullying, school refusal or other common difficulties. A psychologist can provide the support and perspective needed to help young people make sense of what they are going through.
Effective therapy for teens must be relevant to their world and circumstances. This can involve cognitive behavioural strategies that help untangle negative thought patterns, or practical tools that make it easier to manage stress and anxiety in daily life. Sessions are guided by respect for the individual and are shaped to meet the young person where they are, rather than trying to fit them into a formula.
Help in adolescence should address what is happening now and also equip teens with skills they can rely on for life. When young people learn to recognise their emotions and use practical ways to cope, resilience develops. At NextGen Psychology, we have extensive experience with this age group and we are committed to helping young people strengthen these skills so they can become happier, healthier adults.
“Help in adolescence should address what is happening now and also equip teens with skills they can rely on for life.”
The pressures of adulthood are very different from those experienced in high school. Workplace demands, relationship strain, parenthood and major transitions such as separation or the loss of a loved one are all common reasons people seek support. Therapy offers a space to work through these challenges while drawing on strategies that are practical and relevant to everyday living.
Treatment needs to be flexible, as no single approach is right for everyone. Some people benefit from cognitive behavioural strategies for managing stress and anxiety. Others may need trauma-informed care that allows them to explore and process more complex experiences in a safe way.
Adults come to us for many reasons, and their histories, cultures and expectations all influence what kind of support will be useful. At NextGen Psychology, we work with people from a wide range of backgrounds, including young professionals, retirees and serving or ex-serving defence personnel. Our role is to provide respect, understanding and care that fits the circumstances of each individual.
An effective plan begins with an understanding of what the client wants from therapy and how they define progress. For some, that may be reducing the intensity of certain symptoms, while for others it could be improving relationships or feeling more confident in daily life. Plans are not static. They are revisited and adjusted so the process stays relevant as situations change.
Tailoring therapy also means being inclusive. Clients bring with them culture, history and personal experience, and these need to be acknowledged rather than overlooked. By addressing stigma and other barriers, therapy becomes a space where people can be open and honest, which is essential for progress.
The relationship between client and psychologist is also central. A strong alliance makes difficult conversations a little easier and gives individuals the confidence to explore issues that might otherwise remain unspoken. Because each person relates differently, the way that connection is built will vary from one client to the next.
“Therapy offers a space to work through challenges while drawing on strategies that are practical and relevant to everyday living.”
As the principal psychologist at NextGen, I draw on both professional and lived experience gained across schools, community health, the Australian Defence Force and private practice. Over the years I have worked with teenagers, adults, and serving and retired defence personnel, with a particular interest in anxiety-related disorders and trauma-related conditions. The lessons from those settings guide the way I work with clients now.
Our focus is on improving mental health through modern, evidence-based therapies such as cognitive behavioural therapy, trauma-informed approaches and others that research has shown to be effective across many groups. Clients can feel confident that their treatment is grounded in psychological science and clinical practice. I am also trained to an advanced level in EMDR, a therapy designed to support people recovering from trauma.
Just as important as the therapy itself is the environment in which it happens. I believe in creating an atmosphere of trust where clients feel at ease from the moment they arrive. Our office is clean, calm and welcoming, designed to offer a sense of comfort and privacy.
Many people begin therapy hoping for clear answers or a quick solution, and it’s natural to want that when life feels difficult. What I’ve seen time and again is that the real value comes from slowing down, looking closely at what is happening, and finding ways forward that genuinely fit the individual.
At NextGen Psychology, we work with teens, adults and defence personnel to provide therapy that recognises personal differences and accepts there is no single solution to life’s many challenges.
To book a confidential consultation or find out how we can support you, contact us today.
“The real value comes from slowing down, looking closely at what is happening, and finding ways forward that genuinely fit the individual.”
Therapy isn’t a one-size-fits-all service – different approaches help with different needs. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), for example, focuses on how our thoughts, feelings and actions influence each other. It teaches people to challenge negative thinking patterns and develop healthier coping strategies, which is very effective for anxiety and depression. Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) is another approach, often used to help individuals (including defence personnel) heal from trauma and PTSD. A trauma-informed therapy approach means the therapist is especially sensitive to past trauma and aims to ensure you feel safe and not re-traumatised during treatment. These are just a few examples, and a good psychologist will tailor the therapy to your situation, using the techniques that offer the most benefit.
Therapy works by providing a safe, confidential space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings with a trained professional. In practice, it often begins by building trust – your psychologist will take time to get to know you and understand your concerns. Every person is unique, so the therapist will adapt their approach to suit you. Through regular sessions, the psychologist helps you identify patterns or challenges and then teaches practical skills and coping strategies to handle them. Over time, you’ll learn to manage difficult emotions, challenge unhelpful thoughts and communicate better. In short, therapy is a collaborative process.
Finding a psychologist who is a good fit is important. First, look at their credentials and experience. In Australia, psychologists are registered professionals, and many have specialisations. It’s wise to choose someone who has experience with your particular needs or age group. For example, if you’re seeking help for your teenager, you’d want a psychologist used to working with adolescents; if you’re a veteran or defence force member, you might prefer someone knowledgeable about trauma and military life. Next, consider the personal connection: therapy is most effective when you feel comfortable and trust your therapist. Many psychologists offer an initial phone call or first session where you can get a sense of their style. At NextGen, David Merrick has extensive experience working with teenagers, adults and defence clients.
Going to a therapy session might feel daunting if you don’t know what happens. In a typical session, you can expect a one-on-one conversation in a private, relaxed setting. The psychologist will usually start by inviting you to share what’s been bothering you or ask some gentle questions about your life and feelings. Don’t worry, you set the pace – you won’t be forced to talk about anything before you’re ready. Early on, sessions often focus on building trust and understanding. As you get more comfortable, sessions may become more interactive. Every session is a bit different because it revolves around what you need that day. Confidentiality is key too: what you talk about stays between you and the psychologist (except in rare safety-related situations), so therapy is a judgment-free zone.
It’s natural to wonder if therapy is effective. The good news is that yes, therapy helps many people improve their mental health. It’s not usually an overnight cure, but rather a process that leads to meaningful changes over time. With regular sessions, people often start to notice they feel less overwhelmed by anxiety or depression, better able to handle stress, and more connected in their relationships. Research and clinical experience show that evidence-based therapies (like those we use at NextGen Psychology) can be very effective – but it’s important to keep realistic expectations. You might feel improvement in a few weeks, or it might take longer to tackle deeper issues, and progress can sometimes come with small ups and downs. What’s important is to give it time and stay engaged. Think of therapy as an investment in your wellbeing.
Therapy must adapt to the person, not the other way around. Each client’s goals, context and challenges shape the process.
Building emotional awareness and coping strategies in the teenage years strengthens resilience for the future.
From workplace demands to loss and trauma, adults benefit from flexible approaches like trauma-informed care or CBT.
The therapeutic relationship matters. Progress is more likely when clients feel understood, respected and free to speak.
David Merrick is a registered Clinical Psychologist who has spent over a decade helping teens and young adults, adults and defence personnel through complex challenges. He has worked in schools, community health, the Australian Defence Force and private practice, specialising in therapies and assessments.
Awarded a Dean’s Medal for his postgraduate research into anxiety and developmental psychology, David draws on his studies and life experience, including in education, business, government and the ADF, to connect with people of all ages and help them move forward.
He has a particular interest in treating anxiety disorders (including generalised anxiety, OCD, social anxiety, phobia and panic) and trauma-related conditions such as PTSD and moral injury. David is also advanced trained in EMDR, an evidence-based therapy for trauma.
Taking the first step may feel overwhelming, but it’s an act of strength. Contact David to start a conversation that can lead to lasting change.
Taking the first step toward support can feel overwhelming, but it’s also a decisive demonstration of strength.
At NextGen Psychology, we’re here to listen, offer guidance, and help you or your loved one move forward. Reach out today, and let’s begin a conversation that can bring positive, lasting change.